A dream

I am the type who dreams but very very rarely remember any of my dreams. This morning however, i woke up with a very vivid memory of a dream that i had..

i dreamt that my late mother in law whom i called anne (she passed away 4 years ago) and my great great grandma whom i called wan tua (she passed away when i was 15), together they came to me.One of them called on to me and said:

"Simah, bizimle gel"
(Simah come with us)

I woke up after that.Trembling.

Anne or Wan tua have never entered my dreams. They are among the two deceased people whom i am very fond of.

There are a few reasons i can think of as to why they came to me:

1. The syaitan was playing a game on me
2. My call of death is near.
3. They r calling for help, in need of assistance down there.

1. The syaitan
I mean syaitan do enter dreams. Playing with us humans as we dreams. So it is a possible option. But these 2 people did not do anything. They just showed up and invited me to join them. It doesnt seem logical that the dream was the work of syaitan.

2. My call of death is near.
This reminded me of a dream someone in the family had a few years ago. In the dream, that person saw Anne. She asked for baddin so that she (anne) could love him. She played and kissed him and later she gave him back. Coincidently, soon after that baddin had a respiratory problem and was rushed to the hospital.He was ok Alhamdulillah after numerous times of nebuliser.But halil was at that point scared for our son's life that he asked meşe *is my son gonna die?*. Maybe they r calling me there? Allahualam...

3 They r calling for help, in need of assistance down there.
This reminded me of an entry written by shami a few days ago. Shami..mintak kebenaran celup sedikit entry u ni yea?..

Ini diterangkan dalam sebuah hadis yang diriwayatkan oleh Al Diyami Rahimullah( maaf kalau tersalah eja ) maksudnya:

Orang yang mati dalam kuburnya adalah seperti orang yang sedang tenggelam yang meminta pertolongan. Ia menunggu sampai kepadanya rahmat sesuatu doa dari anaknya atau saudara maranya atau sahabat handainya.

Apabila rahmat doa itu sampai kepadanya maka tidaklah terkira sukacitanya dan dirasainya rahmat doa itu lebih berharga daripada dunia dan segala isinya.

Sebenarnya hadiah orang yang hidup kepada orang yang mati ialah doa dan istiqomahnya.

Rayuan rohnya dengan suasana yang hiba dan menyebakkan hati.

Di dalam hadis juga diterangkan maksudnya bahawa roh orang2 mati datang beramai2 kelangit dunia pada tiap2 malam dan berhenti berdekatan bertentangan dengan rumah masing2 tiap2 satu roh antaranya menyeru berkali2 dengan suara yang hiba dan sayu katanya....

Wahai ahli rumahku! wahai kaum kerabatku dan anak2ku! wahai orang yang mendiami rumah kami, dan yang telah membahagi-bahagikan dan menerima harta pusaka peninggalan kami adakah sesiapa diantara kamu yang masih ingat kepada kami atau yang pernah memikirkan, kawan2 kamu yang sedang berada dia alam barzakh !

Kenanglah kami dan bantulah kami dengan doa2 dan amal2 yang soleh semoga Allah memberi rahmat kepada kami.

Setelah puas mereka merayu dan menyeru kembalilah kumpulan roh itu ketempat masing2 dan datang lagi pada malam berikutnya.

Jika ada yang mendoakannya kembalilah ia dengan gembira jika tidak kembalilah ia dengan sebak dan hampa.

Kedua2 hadis ini menerangkan setakat mana, berhajatnya orang yang mati kepada doa2 orang2 yang hidup sebab itulah kita diberi panduan di dalam Al-quran supaya tiap2 seorang sentiasa berdoa mudah-mudahan rahmat bukan sahaja bagi dirinya, ibubapa dan kaum kerabatnya, tetapi juga bagi umat islam umumnya yang hidup dan yang mati.

Ayat Al-quran, dirujuk : ayat 41 surah ibrahim, ayat 10 surah almashyar..
Jika simati orang salah maka doa itu dapat meninggikan darjatnya dan jika ia berdosa maka doa itu dapat menyelamatkan dia dari azab ertinya meringankan tanggungannya....

To conclude, the dead calls to the living for help coz the doa of the living (esp the family ie children of the dead) r among the things that help one person after death. Even since reading that entry in shami's blog, my mind everyday wondered of anne n wan tua. I read them Al- Fatihah or whatever surah i remember while coking etc.. i suppose maybe i need to read more like yassin for them? Zaimlar...haydi..Al- Quran ya okuyalım..Anne ve benim buyuk annem bekli yardım istiyor.. or perhaps i just miss them, keep thinking of them these few days and they came by for a visit coz for me to remember my dream is really something really odd for me.

heheheh i suppose i am thinking nonsense here huh? Anyway, Al- fatihah to all our love ones who have left us..Maybe if we read for them now, once we r gone, our children will read for us..n hopefully the cycle will continue. These r my inner thoughts.....i hope u all dont mind me sharing them with u....

p.s shami's blog addy is at the side bar of this blog...if u wanna read the entry on the part that i kidnap hehehe