My tem...my kids' baba

He is my other half..the one who completes my life. What i lack, he fulfills and vice versa. The same goes for our parenting roles..

To play, the kids will automatically go to their baba. He teaches the kids the meaning of fun and enjoyment..the meaning of what it means to play..and be imaginative..2 characteristics i truly lack..with him, they learn the ropes that life is not about all work n no play...it is about teasing...laughter..and driving each other crazy with the tickling...(Yenge...sorry for the noises we all made when we tickled each other heheh)

U cannot imagine the times i thank Allah for letting him take over the discipline of the kids. ..The times when he brought one of them (mostly baddin) into the room for lessons n lectures on what *not to do and why*...baddin especially would cry but halil would insist on the discipline...baddin would eventually understand what he did wrong promising never to do it again..

I am also thankful for the times when he creates his own bed time stories from his own imagination or tell them stories of our prophets so that they will be among those informed..or at times he explains the islamic understanding of the basic things on iman n islam coz my lack of proficiency in the turkish language made it impossible for me to do all the explaining..He has become the source of general knowledge for the kids that i observe how hatice looks up to him in respect. ..And for all times he is not shy to love, to hug and to kiss my kids in open affection (inside the house)....i think my kids r rest assured that they r loved...

I have always wanted my family to be showered with love and affection...and i think i cannot askfor a better father than my tem to be the father of my beloved angels...

Sunday was the father's day..but to me...everytime u hold the kids...everytime u kiss the kids..everytime u drive them crazy with ur teasing n tickling..everytime u explain things to them with sweet intention...that day is ur day...everytime.. I love you tem..