Discontent??
There i was at our apartment car park area, monitoring my kids cycling..The cousins were there earlier on.But they left later.. we decided to stay a bit longer.After all we just came down.
It was then this one little girl came to our area.She is baddin's age (i am just assuming). She was alone...walking alone..wandering around the area. I know who she is of course..but let the identity be confidential.
There we were... minding our own business...and suddenly that little girl just shouted at hatice out of nothing...And later, she was still there...wandering around...just wandering..her expression..full with heavy thoughts...u can sense an anger waiting to be released...anger at a boiling point..eager to go out..
How do u reach out to a girl like this? How do u bring back the innocence of thoughts...of expressions that is gone from her face? How do u make her think as any child her age should...all innocent..no frown on her face? JUst be...nothing else but be...to be a kid..silly...spoilt...but happy..
It is sad really that this is the end result of her parents' separation...maybe the separation is not wanted by anyone..Maybe they just found out that living together was not possible..i dunno..i dont care really..i really dont..but what i do care is..adults if they r to take an action on their lives..if their actions will involve somebody else..a third or a fourth party in that matter...the adults should try to make it as painless as possible for the others...Clearly this little girl's parents think not of such things..for what i saw in her was this little body with the weight of the world in her head...waiting for a release...waiting for a hug..waiting for someone..esp for the parents to say..*this is not ur fault...i love you*
It was then this one little girl came to our area.She is baddin's age (i am just assuming). She was alone...walking alone..wandering around the area. I know who she is of course..but let the identity be confidential.
There we were... minding our own business...and suddenly that little girl just shouted at hatice out of nothing...And later, she was still there...wandering around...just wandering..her expression..full with heavy thoughts...u can sense an anger waiting to be released...anger at a boiling point..eager to go out..
How do u reach out to a girl like this? How do u bring back the innocence of thoughts...of expressions that is gone from her face? How do u make her think as any child her age should...all innocent..no frown on her face? JUst be...nothing else but be...to be a kid..silly...spoilt...but happy..
It is sad really that this is the end result of her parents' separation...maybe the separation is not wanted by anyone..Maybe they just found out that living together was not possible..i dunno..i dont care really..i really dont..but what i do care is..adults if they r to take an action on their lives..if their actions will involve somebody else..a third or a fourth party in that matter...the adults should try to make it as painless as possible for the others...Clearly this little girl's parents think not of such things..for what i saw in her was this little body with the weight of the world in her head...waiting for a release...waiting for a hug..waiting for someone..esp for the parents to say..*this is not ur fault...i love you*
posted by simah at 7:51 PM
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2 Comments:
The children are the victims in separations or divorces. I guess to them it is like the end of the world. One of the two most important people in their lives, suddenly leaves their lives. Kesian anak-anak ni...:(
memang kesian..if only u could see that little girl...memang sedih sangat..it was so obvious her life is upside down..ni kecik lagi...perasaan dah tunggang langgang..memang kesian
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