The conclusion

This will be the last entry for anne dedication week...though..zaimlar... lutfen o hikayelar hala bekliyorum...acele yok ama insyaAllah bir gun sizden o hikayelar ... sizden çok çok rica ediyorum..

Death...Yes..the effects are painful indeed for the living especially if that person is very much loved. Yet, if we believe in Qada and Qadar, we will know that the death of a person cannot be avoided . It will happen eventually. The only question is... how will we live our lives? How do we want our death..our journey in the alam Barzakh...till the end of the world (Qiamat)....till the day of judgement ...be? Will we aim for the highest jannah (heaven) or will we let the pleasure of this temporary life..this temporary world swallow us? That is for each individual (including me) to decide. After all, the writing of our deeds by the angels raqib and atib on both our left and right shoulders...is for each individual...not groups .

Once the call of death comes. One will forget about his or her love ones....what one has in this world.. will be no longer one's concern..Once the soul (ruh) is separated from the body, the worldly things are not important anymore.. What one will be concerned of at that time is...what news will the angel bring? good or bad?

In a hadith (hadis) ....it is written that there are 3 things that will accompany the dead..

1. The doa of the children of the dead
2. The good deeds of the dead
3. The knowledge obtained and used, spread out to others in a continuous chain.
(the more knowledgable people pls correct me if i am wrong)

Those are the 3 things that will help the dead ...not the crying...not the wailing..

The dedication on my blog is only for the benefits of the living..for those who had onced be touch by the goodness in Anne..It is a matter of self expression..a matter of expressing what is in one's mind..to say things one never said before... to express what anne means to oneself.. in this case..me...

Yes anne..we all miss you very much...life is never the same without you...and we pray that Allah will bless you and give you His full mercy...My only hope is that my writings have done justice to Anne's memory...Memory after all is all we have of you....